Person L.

“Because, that’s the thing about love, really. No one will love you how you want to be loved, they’ll love you in the only ways they know how. Life throws everyone down drastically different paths so how can we expect everyone to love in the same way? The person you’ll spend your lifetime with will love you in their way and you’ll love in yours, and maybe you’ll meet in the middle and it’ll last. None of us know what we’re doing, you see, we’re just fumbling for matches in the dark. If you’re lucky, you might eventually just strike the right one.”

I think my heart is being taken over because it tells me that, your imperfections are beautiful.

Mrs. Monroe

“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”

— Marylin Monroe

Confidence.

What if you could buy self confidence in a jar. Take twice a day, with a full glass of tea; do not take on an empty stomach. Now this would not be self confidence in the form of mood elevating drugs or weight loss supplements. More of a jar, you could open up and it whispers beautiful things to you. Confidence is such an alluring quality. You’re alive, thats what makes you beautiful. Everyone is beautiful. That speck of gold on your otherwise green eyes, that freckle on your cheek, the gap in your teeth, the fullness of your body. Everyone IS beautiful.

If this is true, why is it so impossible to feel sometimes? We sink our skin into bathtubs or luke warm water searching for our flaws.

It is the superficial reason he/she might not fall in love with you - we don’t look within our souls - the things people will actually fall in love with. Remember that look fade - anyone can fall in lust with a look. It’s trite but true that in the long run that is not what you want in a soulmate. You want someone who intrigues you, makes you a better person, someone who compliments your very existence. If self confidence could be purchased in a jar it might say your heart beats like a rabbit and you glow when you smile. It might say the way your brain works is extraordinary, you notice things everyone else is too busy to see. It might just whisper you’re breathing, you.. are.. alive.
Keep Living.

Brittany Murphy

we must remember that life is fragile.

Weird LOVE

We are all a little weird
and life's a little weird
and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatable with ours,
we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love

Life

42 things to do...


1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. When you say, “I love you”, mean it.
5. When you say, “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Believe in love at first sight.
8. Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it’s the only way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11. Don’t judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly, but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”
14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15. Say “bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.
16. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
17. Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
18. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21. Spend some time alone.
22. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
23. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
24. Read more books and watch less TV.
25. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll get to enjoy it a second time.
26. Trust in God, but lock your car.
27. Create a loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
28. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
29. Read between the lines.
30. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
31. Be gentle with the earth.
32. Pray. There’s immeasurable power in it.
33. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
34. Mind your own business.
35. Don’t trust a man/woman who doesn’t close his/her eyes when you kiss.
36. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
37. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.
38. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
39. Learn the rules then break some.
40. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
41. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
42. Remember that your character is your destiny.